Parenting quote of the day: “Uplift yourself through your efforts, and do not degrade yourself. For, the mind can be the friend and also the enemy of the Self” – Bhagavad Gita |

“Uplift yourself through your efforts, and do not degrade yourself. For, the mind can be the friend and also the enemy of the Self.” – Bhagavad Gitaउद्धरेदात्मनात्मानं नात्मानमवसादयेत् ।आत्मैव ह्यात्मनो बन्धुरात्मैव रिपुरात्मनः ॥ 6.5॥uddharedātmanātmānaṃ nātmānamavasādayetātmaiva hyātmano bandhurātmaiva ripurātmanaḥThis verse from the Bhagavad Gita speaks softly, yet it carries deep weight. It reminds me that growth begins inside the mind. The same mind can guide a child forward or pull them down. Parenting often focuses on rules, routines, and results. This quote shifts the focus to something more lasting. It asks adults to shape the inner voice children grow up with. That inner voice stays long after childhood ends.The mind children inherit is shaped at homeChildren do not start with self-belief or self-doubt. They learn it slowly from words, reactions, and silences at home. When effort is noticed more than outcome, the mind learns to become supportive. When mistakes are met with shame, the mind learns to attack itself. This verse reminds that the mind becomes a friend only when it is trained with care. Parenting is one of the first training grounds.Effort matters more than labelsMany children grow up hearing labels like “smart,” “lazy,” or “weak.” Labels stick and quietly define limits. The Gita speaks about uplifting through effort, not identity. Parents can replace labels with language that highlights action. Saying “You worked hard today” builds strength. Saying “You are not good at this” slowly weakens the mind. Over time, effort-based words teach children to trust their ability to grow.Self-talk is learned before it is spokenChildren may not say much, but they listen deeply. The way adults talk about themselves becomes a script children copy. Constant self-criticism teaches the mind to become an enemy. Calm self-correction teaches balance. This verse urges not to degrade the self. That lesson reaches children when they see adults handle failure without harshness. A gentle inner voice is one of the strongest gifts a parent can pass on.Discipline without inner damageCorrection is part of parenting, but tone decides the outcome. Fear may bring quick obedience, but it weakens inner trust. The Gita’s message is firm yet compassionate. It asks for uplift, not suppression. Parents can correct behaviour while protecting dignity. Clear boundaries with calm words help the mind stay steady. Children then learn discipline without losing self-respect.Helping children befriend their own mindFeelings like fear, jealousy, or rage are viewed as issues. This passage provides more insight. Ignoring or mocking emotions turns the mind against you. When feelings are recognized, it turns into a friend. Children can be taught by their parents to label their emotions and to think before behaving. Preparing children for a world beyond parentsParents cannot always be present. Exams, failures, and rejection will come. In those moments, only the inner voice remains. The Gita reminds that the self is both helper and opponent. Parenting guided by this thought prepares children to stand alone with confidence. A strong inner ally helps them rise again, even when external support fades.Disclaimer: This article is meant for general awareness and reflective parenting guidance. It does not replace professional psychological or medical advice. Parenting experiences may vary, and readers are encouraged to seek expert support when needed.